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Pet store woes

by Sarah Rumple on 10/09/2012

He said her name was "Maggie."

Just a few minutes after we arrived at the pet store and began playing with the lone miniature schnauzer--a 14-week-old female--my son, Henry, was in love.

There were multiple problems with this.

Number one: With so many great dogs in need of a home, I have decided our next dog will be a rescue. How did I find myself at a pet store? Well, after a delicious Sunday brunch with my sister (someone who loves animals just as much as I do), she talked me into walking just down the street to see the puppies at the pet store. Apparently my full belly temporarily clouded my judgment, and before I knew it my sister, Henry, and I were taking a leisurely stroll to the nearby pet store--a pet store that sold puppies--likely from questionable sources, and clearly not "rescues"(although many may someday end up in shelters, unfortunately).

Number two: When Henry wants something, he tries really, really, really hard to get it. As an only child, my husband and I have tried not to spoil him, but we probably could have done a better job at the whole not-giving-in-during-a-temper-tantrum thing. Now, Henry thinks if he sheds a few tears, slinks down to the floor, and looks up at us with that I'm-the-most-neglected-child-in-the-world look, we'll feel bad enough for him that he'll end up with whatever it was that he wanted. As soon as he realized he wanted to take this puppy home, and that I wasn't going to let him, the tears began to flow. Before I knew it, we were placing "Maggie" back into her cage and my three-year-old was in full sobbing mode right there in the middle of the pet store.

Number three: My husband isn't necessarily digging the idea of adding another dog to our household. Our first dog, a male miniature schnauzer named Jack, was a "surprise" I brought home to him after we bought our first home together six years ago. As much as he loves Jack, he is often frustrated by his persistent barking, constant begging for food, and $60 grooming visits. Surprising him with another schnauzer (one that had a price tag of more than $500) would lead to one extremely unhappy husband.

Number four: House training a puppy? No thanks. Both my husband and I work full time, and we have an active almost-four-year-old little boy. Sleepless nights and coming home to accidents on the hardwood floors doesn't sound appealing right now.

Number five: Does Jack need a playmate? Or will he be jealous of a new puppy? He was my first-born baby, and was put on the back burner when Henry was born. I wouldn't want to make him feel left out again, and it seems like a puppy would need so much attention that Jack would end up getting even less.

Needless to say, despite all of Henry's crying and begging, we left the pet store that day with no puppy. To appease Henry, the pet store staff put a "hold" on the puppy Henry loved so much so we could go home and talk to my husband about it. By the time we got home, Henry had completely forgotten about our experience at the pet store, and we certainly didn't remind him of it. Now, I'm just hoping little "Maggie" ends up in a wonderful, loving home.       

Have you always thoroughly thought through your pet acquisitions or have you made some impulse decisions (especially if someone was begging you)?

Comments (1) -

Kaydee
Kaydee United States
10/9/2012 2:31:21 PM #

I'm ashamed to say it, but I worked in a pet store for three years.(I was young and thought that my boss told me the truth about "where" our puppies came from) However, I certainly understand what you went through, I've seen it so many times, and sadly it's a pet store antic. Allow the kids to play with the puppy in the puppy-room and you end up with a parent who has a hard time saying no. My boss always tried to befriend the children first, then the parent. Let me tell you, those puppies weren't cheap, some over $1,000!!! I was the only employee there who never bought an animal there. Well, back on subject, bringing children into a pet store usually spells for disaster and tantrums, no matter how well behaved a child is.

Now, as far as rescue dogs in pet stores, I think it's fantastic. Even Petsmart has the SPCA adoption area with cats and dogs. And for a large corporation to put forth that effort, I'm sure Mom and Pop pet shops can look into the local rescues in their neighborhood. It would actually bring in more business for them, because they're doing something the community agrees with, along with creating more awareness about animal abuse/abandonment. I know of two pet product stores that started offering adoptions of shelter dogs, and they get greet feedback!  

Hopefully, "Maggie" found a wonderful.  & sorry, I ramble an awful lot.

Sumon
Sumon United States
11/15/2012 12:43:02 AM #

I protect my dogs by not taking them to places I should avoid. For example,
there is a park near my house, where one certain person will let his 2 dogs off their leashes and run freely.
They are both large dogs. My dog is a pit bull, that I always keep leashed.
I already know that if his dogs run up to mine, even just to give a friendly sniff,
my dog will get aggressive with them. I don’t want to see my dog or his dogs get hurt,
so I just look for his car before we venture over to the park.

BH Dog Lover
BH Dog Lover United States
1/10/2013 11:48:40 PM #

Your story Illustrates the lack of consideration numerous people use when taking in a pet,  however well-intentioned people are.  Thank you for sharing the experience I believe it is an excellent approach to get people to think ahead of a situation that may tug on their hearts and rush them into a commitment their not really wanting or ready to make.  Our organization, VitaHound Dog Nutrition attends several dog adoption events each year, we offer expert advice on dog teeth cleaning and general dog supplement advice to help new owners care for their beloved dogs.  We train our staff to use subtle tactics to help people think beyond the emotions of the moment about the true amount of effort required to raise healthy dogs.  The story’s theme concerning the power of kids to influence one’s rational is thousand percent correct we see constantly experience it at every event.  I believe I probably have adopted a dog or two based on my kids excitement at the time.

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